Grieving over loss

Sooner or later some parts of us will go away..

It’s not easy to learn how to live with missing parts..

We are shocked & try to deny it. Anger assails us & followed by this we feel unbearable guilty.

Depression may come and go and be different each time in length and/or intensity

But always remember that we are allowed to feel abandoned & sad & crytil there is not a single tear left..

Wallow in self-pity, mourn, pelt the next wall with plates & glasses & bawl into your pillow!

Resignation means you finally believe the reality of loss.

Acceptance and Hope come when you finally understand that it will never be the same & neither will you.
It's firstly more than hard to believe but regardless you can go on to have meaning and pleasure in your life.

Afterwards turn your focus on the things in our life which were steady enough to stay, at least til now, and appreciate them… now more than ever!

It's better to have loved & lost than never loved at all.

Stars- Personal

“Sometimes, when people decide to leave you for good, you have to let them, no matter how much you don’t want them to. There are some things that are far beyond our control. Even if you have the strength to fight for them, you have to accept the cold harsh truth — the people that you can’t live without, can live without you.”

I can't keep watig for you like this, I can't keep pretending that you'll be back.

Found a new bomb..no honestly guys I think I've fallen in love again. Awesome recommendation Chris, love U! More songs are following, I can promise you that one.

Asaf Avidan- Your anchor

Ps: My birthday was a raving success... I'm so thankful!

Toodles Katy